As I step away from 2024 and plant my feet into 2025, I am reminded that a new year has begun. For many people, this means making a resolution to commit to a full year of doing one thing that is important to them. And to do that one thing all year long, 365 days of making sure their "new years resolution" is fulfilled. At the end of the year, they can reflect on how successful they were at pursing this journey.
When my daughter asked about my new years resolution, I told her quite frankly that I do not have one. I used to make a resolution every year, but then when the year was over, I would be gravely disappointed if I did not hold myself fully accountable for successfully completing my resolution. Instead of pride, I would always have feelings of regret, remorse and disappointment.
"Mommy, I don't want to have a resolution. But I do want to try and make a change this year. I want to not be so quick to speak and listen more to other people." My nine-year-old is well beyond her years in maturity. I told her this was a beautiful commitment to being mindful of her interactions with others. And it is a tribute to who she is and the young lady she wants to become.
Instead of making a resolution, I choose to lean into gratefulness in the new year. My desire to grow as an individual one moment at a time is important to me. Resolutions overwhelm me but processing a new vision, makes my heart happy and my mind calm. I create a safe space to let go of 2024 negativity and put gratitude and a renewed excitement for all that life has to offer out into the Universe for 2025.
Whether you choose to make a resolution or look forward to a new version of your current reality, I hope you will walk with me in greatness. Let us take one day at a time knowing that we are in this world together to create a space of love, joy and hope. And as always, wear your high heels knowing full well that this year starts with you confidently ready to conquer all that life has to offer no matter the circumstances that present themselves.
Love Note: With all my heart, I genuinely request that due to the content written, please seek the guidance of professional help should you feel you need it.
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