The Past Present and Future Of Gratefulness

Some days are easier than others. Can most of us relate to that? And on the good days, it might be a little bit easier to have a gratefulness perspective. Whereas other days, the days where we struggle, it can feel a bit troublesome to see the sunshine through all the fog. Yet everyday, I love the woman I was, I am proud of who I am, and I am excited for my future.


Recently, my best friend was checking in to say hello and asked me how life was going in my world. I replied, "It's good. Life is good. Today's perspective is "I am grateful because I can do..." rather than "This feels daunting because...". The change in mentality did not make the day feel any easier but yet the shift in perspective certainly adjusted the potential outcome of how my day unfolded.


I love the quote by Maya Angelou that I included as a picture in this blog post.  The way in which she spoke so gracefully about our past, present and future self is empowering. It allows us to view our lives with such beauty and love.


When I reflect on my life, I look back with heartfelt forgiveness. I do this not because I have to forgive anyone for all that I went through. But instead, when I reflect on how challenging it was to get through various chapters of my life, I forgive the world that surrounded me through all my troubles. I love on myself through an atmosphere of grace because I overcame some of the most trying times in my life.  


When I look to the future, I choose to look at it lovingly.  I look forward to the unknown of what lies ahead and I graciously accept what is yet to come of my life's story.  I am, without a doubt, humbled by my past and still look ahead with hope and excitement!


And finally, I feel that the most important thing we can do is to be grateful in the present moment.  As for me, I am grateful for each precious moment of life.  And I am so blessed to be surrounded by such incredibly amazing people.  And as always, I am grateful to be able to wear my high heels as I share in life with all of you.


Love Note: With all my heart, I genuinely request that due to the content written, please seek the guidance of professional help should you feel you need it.